He also loves to drive around in the car, so I will take all three kids driving around to get his meltdowns to stop. The baby doesn't care for being in the car for long though, so I can't win.
Andy is also becoming more difficult for me to lift in and out of the car, so I don't do this every day.
We will soon be needing to purchase a full size van, and have a wheelchair lift added to it. We don't want to make the purchase for a couple years though, so we are trying to make things work with the junky Chrysler town and country mini van.
So, just trying to squeak through this summer with this horrible van, and survive the meltdowns from Andy. He is getting stronger too, and can hurt us easily by punching us. He usually does this when we are carrying him up the stairs. We plan on building a ranch house soon, so that we won't have to carry him anymore. We could just wheel him around in his chair to his bed at night, and if he needs a cool down period in his bed. More on that to come.